This class, explaining the secret of Kal Nidrei, and exploring the theme behind all of the holidays of Elul and Tishrei, was presented to women on 6 Tishrei 5778, September 28, 2017, at Ohr Chaim Shul, Monsey, NY

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yom kippur

tishrei

sukkos

shofar

marriage

freedom

relationships

elul

dating

kol nidrei

personal freedom

rosh hashanah

kal nidrei

Kol Nidrei -- When Your Soul Discovers Its Wings

Tuesday Women's Yom Kippur/Sukkos Class

The Journey of Elul/Tishrei: Courtship, Engagement, Marriage, Intimacy, Honeymoon, And...

This women&#39;s class was presented on Tuesday, 21 Elul 5777, September 12, 2017, at Bais Medrash Ohr Chaim in Monsey, NY.

The class explores the debate in the Mishnah about the shape of the shofar and the debate if we take a breath between the Shevarim and the Teruah -- on a deeper emotional, psychological and spiritual level. Delving into the Attachment theory in psychology and in Judaism, the class explains two states of consciousness, Igulim and Yosher, oneness and separation, and how ultimately, it is in the synthesis of both that we can find our wholesomeness and meaning in life.

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attachment theory

marriage therapy

The Shofar Curved Or Straight? One Breaths or Two Breaths? A Debate on Shofar Captures the Journey Between Our Need for Attachment and for Independence

Tuesday Woman's Rosh Hashanah Class

The Attachment Theory in Psychology and Judaism 

This women's class was presented on Tuesday Parshas Ki Savo, 14 Elul, 5777, September 5, 2017, at Bais Medrash Ohr Chaim, Monsey, NY.

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teshuvah

confession

vidu

vidu maasar

self confidence

Confessing Your Sins Reflects Your Infinite Majesty

Women's Ki Savo/ RH YK Class

You Can Only Do Teshuvah If You Get Rid of Guilt

This women&#39;s class was presented on Tuesday 2 Av, 5777, July 25, 2017, at Ohr Chaim Shul, Monsey, NY

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dignity

malchus

self esteem

self worth

When Our Dignity Is Gone, We Fall Apart

9 Days/Shlach Women's Class

I Matter

This women&#39;s was presented on Tuesday Parshas Balak, 10 Tamuz, 5777, July 4, 2017, at Ohr Chaim shul in Monsey, NY.

It is one of the strangest stories in the Torah&mdash;when the donkey suddenly opens its mouth. But why the need for this strange and funny miracle? What was the point of a donkey seeing an angel, Balaam beating it because he could not see anything in front of him, and then the donkey opening its mouth? Why the need for this strange and humorous miracle? What exactly do we gain from knowing that the wicket Balaam managed to hear a donkey speak? Many commentators have offered various perspectives. Today we will offer one insight (I heard it from Reb Avi Fishoff).

The Torah here is using a striking parable to convey a vital and critical message about education, mentoring and parenting. It is a message that can be a game changer today as we encounter so many young men and women giving up on themselves.

Last week, a young 21 year old woman from Brooklyn died from overdose. Malky struggled for years with a terrible learning disability and when she was expelled from schools that were clueless, she lost her dignity and ultimately, after many a struggle, fell prey to drugs. She was a brilliant artist, a spunky and fun girl, with a heart of gold, but surrounded by clueless educators she lost faith in herself, though her family was as loving and supportive as anyone can be.

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donkey

child abuse

balaam

bilaam

balak

sexual abuse

overdose

suicide

abuse

child molestation

What Did I Do To You? Why Did You Beat Me Three Times?

Balak Women's Class

The Journey of a Young Woman from School Expulsion to Overdose

This women&#39;s class was presented on Tuesday Parshas Korach, 26 Sivan, 5777, June 20, 2017, at Ohr Chaim, Monsey, NY

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korach

leadership

aharon's staff

shimon hatzadik

aaron stick

phenix

Two Types of Leaders: Those Who See Crisis & Those Who See Opportunity

Women's Class Korach

What Does it Take to Be a True Jewish Leader?

The Flax, the Window and the Rope: The Story of Rachav. All the World&#39;s a Play of Three Scenes.

This class for women was presented on Tuesday Parshas Shlach, 19 Sivan 5777, June 13, 2017, at Ohr Chaim shul, Monsey, NY

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spies

shelach

shlach

rachav

addiction

All the World's a Play of Three Scenes

Shlach Women's Class

The Flax, the Window and the Rope: The Story of Rachav

This women&#39;s class was presented on Tuesday Parshas Behaaloscha, 12 Sivan 5777, June 6, 2017, at Ohr Chaim, Monsey, NY

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rebbe

joshua

eldad

education

power

moses

moshe

parenting

yehoshua

influence

meidad

behaaloscha

 Rashi and Rambam Have No Power Over Me; But What Influence!

Behaaloscha/Korach/Pinchas

Who Influenced You Most In your Life?

This women's class was presented on Tuesday, 29 Nissan 5777, April 25, 2017, at Ohr Chaim Shul, Monsey, NY.
Rabbi Akiva taught his students to love. But they could still not learn to respect their colleagues. Why?
There are people you like but don't love; there are people you love but may not like. There are people you love and like, and there are people, well, that you don't love and don't like either. You love your parents. You love your brothers. You love your sisters. But you don't necessarily like them&hellip; Sometimes, you love your husband, but you have a hard time liking him.
What is the difference between "liking" and "loving"? What is the difference between anti-Semites who hate Jews and Jews who dislike Jews? Why do we count both the "day" and the "week" in the counting of the Omer? Why are there so many couples who &ldquo;fall in love,&rdquo; but after some time, they find themselves so far apart?
The class explores two concepts: Love vs. respect. The Hebrew word for love, Ahavah, is the same numerical value as the word Echad, meaning oneness. Love grows out of our oneness and sameness. Respect grows out of appreciating our differences. Both are crucial in relationships between families, communities and nations.

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You Love Other Jews, But Can You Respect Them?

Women's Sefira/Lag Baomer Class

You Love Your Wife, But Do You Respect Her? You Love Your Children, But Do You Respect Them?

This class was presented to women on Tuesday, 1 Nissan 5777, March 28, 2017, at Ohr Chaim, Monsey, NY. It is part 1 of a 2-part series exploring the 15 steps of the Passover seder in our personal lives.

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pesach

seder of pesach

15 steps

15 Steps Toward Personal Emancipation

Your Psychological Seder #1

This women&#39;s class on Purim was presented on Tuesday, 9 Adar, 5777, March 7, 2017, at Ohr Chaim, Monsey, NY.

The most special of the four mitzvos we are obligated to do on Purim&mdash;listening to the Megillah, sending gifts of food to a friend, and enjoying a feast&mdash;is &ldquo;Matanos La&rsquo;evyonim,&rdquo; giving gifts to the poor. Yet there is something amiss here: Why did the Bible, in the book of Esther, as well as the all of the Talmudic and halachik literature, designate the term &ldquo;matanos laevyonim,&rdquo; gifts to the poor, rather than use the standard version&mdash;&ldquo;tzedaka laevyonim,&rdquo; charity to the poor?

The Talmud relates that G-d says He needs an &ldquo;atonement&rdquo; every month for diminishing the moon. If G-d feels guilty why does he not repair His actions? But how can G-d even do anything &ldquo;wrong?&rdquo;

According to the Midrash, King David requested from G-d to streamline the entire world. David said: Master of the universe! Let everyone sit equally before you, both the rich and the poor. Let all people have equal means. Imagine! Thousands of years before Karl Marx, King David could not understand why is our world divided between the rich and the poor?

The handicapped young man was abandoned by his parents as an infant. He has never seen them or spoken to them. After 30 years he finally met them. These were his words: &ldquo;Mumma, Puppa&hellip; I, I am not perfect. You, too, you are also not perfect. I have forgiven you. Can you forgive me?&rdquo;

This class, based on a talk of the Lubavithcer Rebbe, Purim 1971, explores the essence of the human struggle on earth and the unique experience of giving charity on Purim.

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tzedakah

purim

charity

moon

leap year

How to Give Charity on Purim -- And All Year

The Perfection of Imperfection: The Secret of Matanos L'aevyonim

This class was presented to women on Tuesday, 8 Nissan 5777, April 4, 2017, at Ohr Chaim, Monsey, NY. It is part 2 of a 2-part series exploring the 15 steps of the Passover seder in our personal lives.

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your psychological seder

Your Psychological Seder #2

Your Psychological Seder #2

15 Steps Toward Personal Emancipation

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