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Why Wasn’t Yitzchak Angry With Rivkah? The Path to Inner Peace

How to Give Up the Need to Control

1 hr 26 min

Class Summary:

This class was presented on Tuesday Parshas Toldos, 28 Cheshvan, 5783, November 22, 2022, at Bais Medrash Ohr Chaim in Monsey, NY.

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    Shimon V -2 years ago

    The Rav explained in the words of the sefas emes that Rivka wanted the bracha that was intended for Esav to be given to yakov regarding that even the bnei yakov if we are far away from the kedusha we still should have that inner spark to be able to return us to hashem. Where do we see that idea in the Barachos that yitzchak gave. I don't since any hint of that in the words of the brachos. The idea I  understand but it doesn't seem to say that in the words. A reply to this question would be appreciated.

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    Aliza -2 years ago

    Which words in the Bracha of Yitzchak to Yaakov  indicate the idea of rising above the darkness? 

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    Batya Moller -2 years ago

    Thank you for this week woman shuir as some who is going through a challenging time in her life a place that wasn't in the plan your words put it into perspective good shabbos 

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  • Anonymous -2 years ago

    We must have a plan, but be prepared to adjust

    Like Hashem. Who first desired a world according to Din. When it didn't work out He recreated a world according to chesed.

    And even then, again, when Plan A of the world didn't work out, the adjustment and flexibility of Hashem brought the mabul and the world that came afterwards 

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    Inna -2 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    How does this compare with the actions of Bilam (who intended to curse but blessed BY). Why did Bilam have the zchus?

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    Kj -2 years ago

    When we control, G-d loses His access to the situation to work, as you ursurped His place as G-d of the situation and of you...eat and be like G-d!

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    Sury -2 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    I just wonder if my relationship is not an abusive one, as my husband can at times be explosive, throwing up all his stuff on me with lots of blame, but then when he calms down, I become less desperate to reach out, and the cycle goeson and on. I doubt myself a lot as I cant identify what the problem is. This causes me to become doubtful, shaky and guilty for feeling lonely, depressed and lost. I have reached out to my therapist and have gone to couple's therapy for 4 month, which he refused to continue at one point when he was given the message that he needs to take responsibility too. I am afraid of him and afraid to reach out to a Rav, as he threatened me he,ll take revenge. Should I just pluck up the courage and continue or be a 'good wife', pray and hope for the best. Thanks a million and be gebenched

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      Kj -2 years ago

      Take him to the court of G-d and let G-d deal with Him.  Be prepared for the ensuing whirlwind!

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    • Anonymous -2 years ago

      You can email rabbi YY directly.

       This is an important issue, and Rabbi YY is very good at responding to emails, I’m keeping it anonymously.

       He may not read every comment.

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    • Anonymous -2 years ago

      Laura Doyle's book "empowered wife" really helped me since I had a very similar situation in my relationship and there is hope for you..

      All the best I hope you feel better soon 

      In the meantime take good care of yourself 

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    • Anonymous -2 years ago

      Please take courage and seek help and HaShem will lead you through it

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      Elaine hamilton -2 years ago

      Being a woman of substance is not about tolerating abusive behavior and destruction of your self esteem. You should get counseling and honor yourself as Hashem would want. 

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    • Anonymous -2 years ago

      Call shalom Task force 

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Women's Sefas Emes/Toldos Class

Rabbi YY Jacobson

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Dedicated by Yechezkal Gutfreund for the yartzeit of Dovid ben Yechezkal HaLevi Gutfreund (15-Mar Cheshvan) 

Dedicated by Liz and Dr. Michael Muschel, in loving memory of Rebbetzin Sara Muschel, Sorah bas R' Yechiel Mechel, for the 11th yartzeit on 23 Cheshvan.

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