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Dealing With the Stress on Relationships During the Coronavirus

How Can I Improve My Marriage and My Connection With My Children During Quarantine?

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Rabbi YY Jacobson live lecture to the Mexico City community, 9 PM EST on Sunday, 9 Iyar, 5780, May 3, 2020

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    Dina -3 years ago

    Rabbi, I am a big fan and usually a cheerleader, but.....

    I think that the story you told about the Alter Rebbe in 1812 and the man who pushed his wife off the porch was at best tin ears, at worst irresponsible. I am curious what possessed you to tell such an "unsanitized' Jewish story?
     
    (It reminded me a bit of my father who loves to tell us stories that are off-color...as that one was)
     
    Anyway, I assume I am not the only one taking umbrage with this choice of stories. 

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    sandy -3 years ago

    Message: thank you for that very inspiring lecture "dealing with our relationships during corona virus." BH my hubby and I have implemented some of your suggestions and have toured many neighborhoods in monsey on our daily walks. HOWEVER what has marred all our walks was the encountering of many jews on their way to minyan.

    We passed 4 this past shabbos with Hagbah, Kiddushim etc. How am i to 'love my fellow jews". Where are all the Rebbes decrying this behaviour? When i see this total disregard of halachich and medical guidance I am astounded. And it's not a small minority. At this point i think there are more minyanim than not, many indoors.

    It's as if no one "is home" and there is an entire society within klal yisroel who are ignoring all guidelines re social responsiblity. How can i overcome by growing rejection of this segment of klal yisroel as my brothers??? I cannot help but get depressed every time i see this. thank you

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    Dr. Michael -3 years ago

    my song

    Depressing. Wearing all this PPE as we see patients. Leaves one feeling so disconnected. As though we have to be careful to somehow separate and distance ourselves from them —which is exactly the opposite of what we have been trained and always strived to do.

     
    This afternoon I was watching one of my partners sitting in front of the echocardiogram computer, masked, gloved, and I spontaneously began singing to her, to cheer us both up. (She is Israeli, somewhat מסורתי)
    חג פורים חג פורים.... מסכות, רעשניים...
     
    It cheered me up. We had a laugh together. So a few  minutes later, I came up with this:
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    SUNG to the tune of Chag Purim, Chag Purim:
     
    נגיפים, רוב חולים
    עת קשה להיות רופאים
    מסכות, כפפות
    מגיני פנים
     
     
    הבה נזכה לרחמנות
    לשלול רגשי הפחדנות
    נפנים היטב את השליחות
    ידידים להחלים
     
    I’ve been singing it all afternoon. And it really has been cheering me up each time.
     
    Just something I thought I would share. Hope to see you soon.
     

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    Leah Lowinger -3 years ago

    dear rabbi yy thank you im already looking foward to marry

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    Rifka Saltz -3 years ago

    The one and only

    Dear Rebbi,

    The more I listen to you speak, the more respect and admiration I have for you. Tonight’s shiur revealed your deep understanding of human nature. A spiritual psychologist. Your comments specifically related to husbands and wives were on point. It seems that Hashem has given you special kochos for this time, and you are crystal clear on what we can use this unprecedented opportunity to become.

    Thank you so very much for all the energy you are putting forth to strengthen us. May Hashem continue to bless you and your family with good health, strength, succes and nachas.

    p.s. Make sure your son brings you enough to drink!!

    Kol tuv.

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    Benjamin London -3 years ago

    Dear Rabbi Jacobson, I so much enjoy and benefit from your talks and advice via YouTube. You do have an ability to warmly connect with your audiences that places you among the very best Jewish teachers and communicators.
    With great respect may I suggest that you prevent people from walking behind you during broadcasts as it is distracting and I feel not menschlikeit. Wishing you continued hatzlocho in all that you do

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  • Anonymous -3 years ago

    Thank you

    My husband does not like me. In fact, he thinks I'm a bad person with very few good qualities. We have a few children and he doesn't want to divorce, yet he is not prepared to work on our marriage either. My efforts to improve have not had an impact either. What can i do?

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    Shmuel -3 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    Is it is it ok to listen to Jewish music during ספירת העומר as it helps me relax

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    Isaac -3 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    I live in a neighborhood where all shuls and mikvas are open without social distance, my wife keeps on asking me (sometimes infront of my children) why i am not going to shul like all people in my neighborhood, how do i deal with it?

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    NF -3 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    Can you please explain about the meaning of being bas mitzvah. Thank you for your encouraging Shiurim! You are so inspiring and I look up to you so much!!

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      Sam -3 years ago

      The avarege age of purberty. Nothing more

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    Isaac -3 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    I live in a neighborhood where all shuls and mikvas are open without social distance, my wife keeps on asking me (sometimes infront of my children) why i am not going to shul like all people in my neighborhood, how do i deal with it?

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    leah neuwirth -3 years ago

    Shul shabbus

    I live in a neighborhood where all shuls and mikvas are open without social distance,  my wife keeps on asking me (sometimes infront of my children) why i am not going to shul like all people in my neighborhood, how do i deal with it?

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    Yossi gindi -3 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    I would like to appear live at this event
    What can I do to get my 9 year old boy to sleep at a normal hour. He has sleeps whenever he wants. I tried everything bribes - consequences - conversations nothing works. He never sleeps on time but since corona, he sleeps at 11-12 even 1 at night ?

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    Miriam -3 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    Please anonymous: How to deal with mikveh and couple purity with coronavirus. Shalom

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    Anonymous -3 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    I love bar mitzvas i love to dance and make people happy but now we are at home. How can I make people happy- I know I can call friends uncles Bubby’s and Zeidy’s. But is there any other way to make people happy? OLSO CAN YOU PLEASE SAY A JOKE?

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    Anonymous -3 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    When a teenager is dealing with a sick parent, and I’m her friend, how can I help her now if I can’t pull her out of her house

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    Hana Ganon -3 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    Is there a message we should transmit children about this moment situation?

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    Anonymizes -3 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    If a soul has multiple physical bodies in which it appears on this world, mya question is: take a father whose father died, mom remarries and they have a new family together. When mashiach comes, which father will the original family have? Will their father who died young, get up physically and be reunited with his kids? What about his wife who now has a new husband?

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    José Sebastian Sanabria Camacho -3 years ago

    Question for Rabbi YY

    I would like to appear live at this event
    Pido que recen por mí, porque tengo Covid 19

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Live Lecture to Mexico City Community

Rabbi YY Jacobson

  • May 3, 2020
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  • 9 Iyyar 5780
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Dedicated by Ronald Stein, in memory of his Mother, Roslyn Stein, Rachel bat Aryeh Leib, Yahrtzeit is 16 Iyar

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