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I Am Joseph

The Light Born of Life's Challenges

    Rabbi YY Jacobson

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I Am Joseph - The Light Born of Life's Challenges

Dedicated by Josh Goldhirsch, In loving memory of Shraga Feivish ben Meir Goldhirsch

In disguise

There were two beggars sitting side by side on a street in Mexico City. One was dressed like a Christian with a cross in front of him; the other one was a Chassidic Jew with a black coat and a long beard. Many people walked by, looked at both beggars, and then put money into the hat of the one sitting behind the cross.  After hours of this pattern, a priest approached the Jewish Chassidic beggar and said: "Don't you understand? This is a Catholic country. People aren't going to give you money if you sit there like a real Jew, especially when you're sitting beside a beggar who has a cross. In fact, they would probably give him just out of spite."

The Chassidic beggar listened to the priest and, turning to the other beggar dressed as a Christian, said: "Moshe... look who's trying to teach us marketing."

A brother’s identity disclosed

The story of Joseph revealing himself to his brothers after decades of bitter separation is, no doubt, one of the most dramatic in the entire Torah. Twenty-two years earlier, when Joseph was seventeen years old, his brothers despising their younger kin, kidnapped him, threw him into a pit, and then sold him as a slave to Egyptian merchants. In Egypt, he spent twelve years in prison, from where he rose to become viceroy of the country that was the superpower at the time. Now, more than two decades later, the moment was finally ripe for reconciliation.

"Joseph could not hold in his emotions," the Torah relates in this week's portion[1]. “He dismissed all of his Egyptian assistants from his chamber, thus, no one else was present with Joseph when he revealed himself to his brothers. He began to weep with such loud sobs that the Egyptians outside could hear him. And Joseph said to his brothers: 'I am Joseph! Is my father still alive?' His brothers were so horrified that they could not respond.

“Joseph said to his brothers, ‘please come close to me’. When they approached him, he said, ‘I am Joseph your brother – it is me whom you sold into Egypt.

“’Now, be not distressed, nor reproach yourself for having sold me here, for it was to be a provider that G-d sent me ahead of you…G-d has sent me ahead of you to ensure your survival in the land and to sustain you for a momentous deliverance.”

Analyzing the encounter

Emotions are not mathematical equations that could or should be subjected to academic scrutiny and analysis (besides, perhaps, in your shrink’s office). Emotions, the texture through which we experience life in all of its majesty and tragedy, profess independent “rules” and a singular language, quite distinct of the calculated and structured ones of science. 

Yet we still feel compelled to tune-into the particular phraseology employed by the Torah in describing this powerfully charged encounter when Joseph reveals his identity to his brothers.

Four observations come to mind[2].

1) After Joseph exposes his identity to his brothers, he asks them to come close to him. Despite the fact that they were alone with him in a private room, Joseph wants them to approach even closer. At this moment we are expecting Joseph to share with his brothers an intimate secret. But that does not seem to come.

2) After they approach him, Joseph says, “I am Joseph your brother – it is me whom you sold into Egypt.” But he has already told them that he was Joseph!

3) Why did Joseph feel compelled to inform them that they sold him to the Egyptians, as though they were unaware of what they had done to their little brother? Why could he not immediately begin his explanation as to why they need not reproach themselves for selling him?

4) The first time Joseph discloses himself he does not define himself as their brother; yet when he repeats himself again he does mention the sense of brotherhood, “I am Joseph your brother.” Why the difference?

The unrecognized soul

The longest unbroken narrative in the entire Torah is from Genesis 37 to 50, and there can be no doubt that its hero is Joseph. The story begins and ends with him. We see him as a child, orphaned by his mother and beloved by his father; as an adolescent dreamer, resented by his brothers; as a slave, then a prisoner, in Egypt; then as the second most powerful figure in the greatest empire of the ancient world. At every stage, the narrative revolves around him and his impact on others. He dominates the last third of the book Genesis, casting his shadow on everybody else. Throughout the entire Bible, there is nobody we come to know as intimately as Joseph. The Torah seems to be infatuated with Joseph and his journeys and struggles more than with any other figure, perhaps even more than with the two pillars of the Jewish faith, Abraham and Moses. What is the mystique behind Joseph? Who is Joseph?

Joseph’s life embodies the entire drama and paradox of human existence. Joseph on the outside was not the Joseph on the inside; his outer behavior never did justice to his authentic inner grace. Already as a young teen, his brothers could not appreciate the depth and nobility of his character. The Midrash[3] understands The Torah’s description of Joseph at the age of seventeen as a “young boy” to indicate that he devoted much time to fixing his hair, grooming his eyes, and measuring his every step. Joseph appeared to most people around him as spoiled and pompous.

Then, when Joseph rose to become the vizier of Egypt, he donned the persona of a charismatic statesman, a handsome, charming, and powerful young leader, a skilled diplomat, and a savvy politician with great ambition. It was not easy to realize that beneath these qualities lay a soul on fire with moral passion, a kindred spirit for whom the monotheistic legacy of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob remained the epicenter of his life; a heart overwhelmed with love toward G-d. A young slave in a foreign country, he will not betray his moral integrity even in the face of profound temptation. Throughout his life's journey, he is filled with joy, faith, and resilience, as the Torah emphasises again and again.

Joseph’s life is poignantly expressed in one biblical verse[4]: "Joseph recognized his brothers but they did not recognize him." Joseph easily identified the holiness within his brothers. After all, they lived most of their lives isolated as spiritual shepherds involved in prayer, meditation, and study.

Yet these very brothers lacked the ability to discern the moral richness etched in the depth of Joseph's heart. Even when Joseph was living with them in Israel, they saw him as an outsider, as a danger to the integrity of the family of Israel. Certainly, when they encountered him in the form of an Egyptian leader, they failed to observe beyond the mask of a savvy politician the heart of a Tzaddik, the soul of a Rebbe.

The fire in the coal

This dual identity that characterized Joseph's life played itself out in a most powerful way when his master's wife attempted to seduce him into intimate relations. On the outside, she thought, it would not be very difficult to entice a young abandoned slave into sacrificing his moral integrity for the sake of attention, romance, and fun. But, when push came to shove, when Joseph was presented with the test of tests, he displayed heroic courage as he resisted and fled her home. As a result of that act, he ended up in prison for 12 years.

The Midrash[5] compares Joseph to the fresh wellspring of water hidden in the depth of the earth, eclipsed by layers of debris and gravel. In a converse metaphor making the identical point, the Kabbalah sees Joseph as the blaze hidden within the coal. On the outside, the coal seems cold; but when you expose yourself to its true texture, you sense the heat, the fire, and the passion. You get burnt.

Disclosure

And then came the moment when Joseph removed his mask.

The Zohar, the basic Kabbalistic commentary on the Bible, presents a penetrating visualization of what transpired at the moment when Joseph exposed himself to his brothers.

When Joseph declared, “I am Joseph,” says the Zohar[6], the brothers observed the divine light radiating from his countenance; they witnessed the majestic glow emanating from his heart. Joseph’s words “I am Joseph” were not merely a revelation of who he was, but also of what he was. For the first time in their lives, Joseph allowed his brothers to see what he really was. “I am Joseph!” must also be understood in the sense of “Look at me, and you will discover who Joseph is.”

When Joseph cried out “I am Joseph,” says the Midrash, “his face became ablaze like a fiery furnace.” The burning flame concealed for thirty-nine years within the coal emerged in its full dazzling splendor. For the first time in their entire lives, Joseph’s brothers saw the raw and naked Joseph; they came in contact with the greatest holiness in the world emerging from the face of an Egyptian vizier…

Loss

“His brothers were so horrified that they could not respond,” relates the Torah. What perturbed the brothers was not so much a sense of fear or personal guilt. What horrified them more than anything else was the sense of loss they felt for themselves and the entire world as a result of his sale into Egypt.

“If after spending 22 years in a morally depraved society,” they thought to themselves, “one year as a slave, twelve years as a prisoner, nine years as a politician -- Joseph still retained such profound holiness and passion, how much holier might he have been if he spent these 22 years in the bosom of his saintly father Jacob?!”

“What a loss to history our actions brought about!” the brothers tormented themselves. “If Joseph could have spent all these years in the transcended oasis, in the sacred environment, in the spiritual island of the Patriarch Jacob – how the world might have been enriched with such an atomic glow of holiness in its midst!”

Contrasting Joseph’s present condition to what might have been his potential, left the brothers with an irreplaceable loss by what they sensed was a missed opportunity of historic proportions.

The error

At this moment, “Joseph said to his brothers, ‘Please come close to me’.” Joseph wanted them to approach even closer and gaze deeper into the divine light coming forth from his countenance.

“When they approached him,” relates the Torah, “He said, ‘I am Joseph your brother – it is me whom you sold into Egypt.” Joseph was not merely repeating what he had told them earlier (“I am Joseph”), nor was he informing them of a fact they were well aware of (“It is me whom you sold into Egypt”), rather, he was responding to their sense of irrevocable loss.

The words “I am Joseph your brother – it is me whom you sold into Egypt” in the original Hebrew can also be translated as “I am Joseph your brother – because you sold me into Egypt.” What Joseph was stating was the powerfully moving message that the only reason he reached such tremendous spiritual heights is because he spent the last 22 years in Egypt, not in Jacob’s sacred environment.[7]

The great catalyst

The awesome glow that emanated from his presence, Joseph suggested, was not there despite his two decades in lowly Egyptian society, far removed from his father’s celestial paradise; it came precisely as a result of his entanglement with a life alien to the innocent and straightforward path of his brothers. The incredible trials, tribulations and adversity he faced in the spiritual jungle are precisely what unleashed the atomic glow the brothers were presently taking in.

Had Joseph spent the two decades voyaging with his father down the paved road of psychological and spiritual transparency and lucidity, he would have certainly reached great intellectual and emotional heights. But it was only through his confrontation with a glaring abyss that gave Joseph that singular majesty, passion and power that defied even the rich imagination of his brothers.

That is why Joseph asked his brothers to come closer to him, so that they can behold from closer up his unique light and appreciate that this was a light that could only emerge from the depth of darkness, from the pit of Egyptian promiscuity.

[This is also the reason for Joseph mentioning, the second time around, the element of brotherhood. For Joseph was attempting not only to tell them who he was, but to share the reality of their kinship, the fact that he, like them, was deeply connected to his spiritual roots].

If only…

Just as the brothers, many of us, too, live our lives thinking “If only…” If only my circumstances would have been different; if only I was born into a different type of family; if only I would have a better personality… The eternal lesson of Joseph is that the individual journey of your life, in all of its ups and downs, is what will ultimately allow you to discover your unique place in this world as a servant of G-d.

The Forest

"The sea was much better," the traveler complained. "Whenever I got tired it at least had its currents to push me forward on my journey but you," he looked at the vast desert surrounding him, "you are of no help."

He went down on his knees, dead tired. When his breaths restored back to normalcy, a while later, he heard the desert's voice.

"I agree. I am of no help like the sea and thus I often depress people. But do you really think people will remember you for crossing the sea? Never! For the sea doesn't allow you to leave any mark. I, on the contrary, do. Thus, if you cross me, I swear, you will in turn immortalize yourself with the imprints you leave over me!"

The traveler got the essence and got up to walk on. "It's always about the imprints," his heart echoed[8].

[1] Genesis 45:1-7.

[2] The following observations are discussed by many of the biblical commentators, who offer various explanations (See Midrash Rabah, Rashi, Ramban, Klei Yakar Or Hachaim).

[3] Midrash Rabah Bereishis 84:7. Quoted in Rashi to Genesis 37:2.

[4] Genesis 42:8.

[5] Midrash Rabah ibid. 93:3.

[6] Zohar vol. 1 p. 93b.

[7] The Sefas Emes movingly interprets the Hebrew phrase used by Joseph “asher mechartem,” that it is similar to the term “asher shebarta,” meaning “yasher koach shesebarta,” thank you for breaking the tablets, and thank you for selling me to Egypt.

[8] This essay is based on Chassidic writings: See Sefas Emes Parshas Vayigash. See further Sefer Halikkutim under the entry of Yosef; Sefer Letorah U’Lemoadim (by Rabbi Shlomo Yosef Zevin) Parshas Vayigash (p. 60-61); Likkutei Sichos vol. 25 pp. 255-257.

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    Rachel S -5 years ago

    There is the familiar saying that " Ein Navi Beiro" - One cannot be a prophet in his home town. Had Joseph not be sold to the Egyptians he would have never had achieved what he did in the foreign land. He became what he was intended to be only when he moved out of his homeland. He told his brothers "I am Joseph", I became what I became thanks to you, to what you did to me.
     
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    Elvis -5 years ago

    very profound! Thanks Rabbi!

    very profound! Thanks Rabbi!

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    shmuel rosenberg -5 years ago

    Excellent message to accept each of iour situations because it is tailor made for us to get where we need to go.  Often, it feels perhaps some misstake was made but I guess Hashem constructed the play of life with the proper environment and cast fo characters.  shmuel rosenberg

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    Rifka Saltz -5 years ago

    Penetrating

    Dear Rabbi Jacobson:

    Thank you. Your essay really helps me understand an essential and fundamental point in Yiddishkeit. I’ve heard it and read it before, that Hashem gives each of us exactly and precisely what we need because it’s “good” for us. And often we don’t feel comforted by knowing that, especially if it’s difficult and/or painful.

    I even recently learned that we have tests from Hashem, on an ongoing basis. And that we should visualize what passing the test would look like.

    But the picture you drew of Yosef’s shining, almost blinding, countenance, really impacts me. I can almost “see” his face glowing, and understand that he got that way from successully passing his nisanyos.

    It seems so simple, really, but somehow this essay helps me ‘get it.’  In the midst of pain, if I can visualize myself shining, it could help me accept the difficulty more gracefully.

    Thank you very much.

    I enjoyed your Chanukah videos a lot also.

    Sincerely,

    Rifka Saltz

     

    P.s. the Forest part doesn’t add to the essay. It’s superfluous.

     

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    Rifka Saltz -5 years ago

    Penetrating

    Dear Rabbi Jacobson:

    Thank you. Your essay really helps me understand an essential and fundamental point in Yiddishkeit. I’ve heard it and read it before, that Hashem gives each of us exactly and precisely what we need because it’s “good” for us. And often we don’t feel comforted by knowing that, especially if it’s difficult and/or painful.

    I even recently learned that we have tests from Hashem, on an ongoing basis. And that we should visualize what passing the test would look like.

    But the picture you drew of Yosef’s shining, almost blinding, countenance, really impacts me. I can almost “see” his face glowing, and understand that he got that way from successully passing his nisanyos.

    It seems so simple, really, but somehow this essay helps me ‘get it.’  In the midst of pain, if I can visualize myself shining, it could help me accept the difficulty more gracefully.

    Thank you very much.

    I enjoyed your Chanukah videos a lot also.

    Sincerely,

    Rifka Saltz

     

    P.s. the Forest part doesn’t add to the essay. It’s superfluous.

     

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    Reuven Pollock -5 years ago

    The article helped me refocus on the unique, custom-designed challenges and situations I navigate. Thank you.

    (typo in Brother ID: than instead of then)

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    Barz G. -6 years ago

    Joseph

    Nicely woven work of praise and insight! The only thing that is lacking is a commentary on Joseph's greatest gift or skill in interpreting dreams. 

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    Isaac Mayer -6 years ago

    I am Joseph

    Powerful, very powerful is the right word. Thank you so much!

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    Howard Adelman -6 years ago

    Joseph as an exemplar of Grace

    My cousin Sarah sent your commentary to me. My response follows:

    Sarah;

     

    What a terrific opening joke! Subtle but brilliant. It has what the best of jokes possess – the unexpected plus insight.

     

    It has the added value in that it hints that the rabbi’s commentary will not be about Joseph as a philanthropist to the Egyptians and the surrounding peoples under Egypt’s sovereign protection. Further, Rabbi Jacobson seems to agree that the story will be about a common literary trope, recognition and disguises.

     

    I do not know enough about the calculations of years or whether in this case it even matters, But I thought that Joseph was only 30 years old when he became viceroy. If he was thrown in the pit at the age of seventeen and nine years have passed since he became vizier of Egypt, then, in my calculation, and, I believe many others, the time between being thrown in the pit, his period of service as a slave and his years in prison together totalled 4 years whereas the Rabbi says that it was 12 years for the time spent in prison alone.

     

    But the devil is in the details, including the details of interpretation. I noted the following additional, and, for me, more serious differences, even as I very much agree with Rabbi Jacobson that the story is one of the most dramatic in the Torah and, I would add, has the longest monologue, that of Judah:

    1.     Rabbi Jacobson states that the revelation came after “decades of bitter separation,” but where is there any suggestion that the separation was bitter for either Joseph or his brothers. Joseph seemed never to have given his brothers (or, perhaps more surprising, his father) a thought during the long years of separation. And the only regret of the brothers seems to have been the guilt – perhaps too strong a word – or concern about their treatment of their brother turned into the bitterness to which they had subjected their father. Thus, if the years of separation were bitter, it does not seem to have been so for either Joseph or his brothers.

    2.     Jacobson notes that Joseph was full of emotion when first reunited with his younger full blood brother, Benjamin. He dismissed his Egyptian servants and revealed himself to his brothers after weeping so loudly he could be heard throughout the palace. Thus, is unlikely he dismissed his servants in order not to be emotional in front of them. Therefore, the dismissal needs another explanation.

    3.     Further, in the previous week’s portion, when Joseph first met Benjamin and was overcome with emotion, he left the company of his brothers to weep by himself. The question arises – why did he weep by himself the first time that he was overcome with emotion and fled both his courtiers and his brothers, but wept, again without his courtiers present, after Judah’s monologue.

    4.     Clearly, Rabbi Jacobson is correct that Joseph’s emotionalism is an essential part of the tale, but this does not mean that it was not a calculated emotion as Jacobson implies..

    5.     The rabbi translates “nivaloo” (נִבְהֲל֖וּ) as “horrified.” Now it is true that בָּהַל can mean “terrified,” but in the context, the suggested meaning is disturbed, or, I would translate it in this context as “tongue tied.” They were speechless, and true enough they do not say a thing. They do not respond. “Horrified” is just too strong a translation for the context, for, if anything, the context makes clear that they would no longer have to be afraid that Joseph would enslave their youngest brother, let alone take his life as they originally feared, and that their father would not die as a result of hearing the news. Thus, they would be dumbstruck rather than horrified.

    6.     The brothers were incredulous. It was then that Joseph called to them to approach him, to come close to him, as if only in close proximity could he reassert a second time that he was their brother, Joseph, whom they had sold into slavery. Recall, that Judah was the one who maneuvered to save Joseph’s life not to have his blood on their hands and sold him into slavery rather than seeing him killed so Reuben would have been doubly dumbstruck because it would have been the first time he learned that Joseph had not been killed but had been sold as a slave.

    7.     It is then that Joseph offers the explanation of God’s providence and interprets it to mean that they can escape responsibility for their actions. For it was all part of God’s plan so that they could be saved from the famine sweeping across the land. That explanation has to be read in the context of Joseph in the previous week’s portion where, before Judah delivered his monologue that opens Vayigash, Joseph told his brothers that he was a practitioner of divination – suggesting to them as a false reason why he knew about the planted goblet and why they could not hold back any secret from him, and hinting again about his larger role in the history of the Hebrews, namely that he could forecast their salvation by the Pharaoh and then their enslavement and finally escape from Egypt. What does the insistence upon being a diviner – a practice repeatedly condemned by our rabbis of old – mean when the other bracket to the scene is that Joseph claims it is all part of God’s plan, a claim he repeats 4 times?

    8.     Rabbi Jacobson then inserts his own homily on a radical separation between emotions and the logic of calculation. But the real question is not whether emotions are governed by rules of their own, but whether the emotions have some calculus behind them. How genuine are they or are they part of a performance art, part of Joseph’s remarkable Machiavellian qualities?

    9.     Jacobson raises 4 questions

    a)     Why does Joseph when he now is in a context of privacy from Egyptian ears ask his brothers to come closer?

    b)     Why does Joseph repeat to them that he is their brother?

    c)     Why in the second time does he refer to the fact that he was the same brother whom they had sold into Egypt?

    d)     Why does he even define himself as their brother the second time, but not the first?

    10.  Before answering these questions, Jacobson makes a side remark that in this longest narrative in the whole of Genesis, a) that it is unbroken, and b) ‘there can be no doubt that its hero is Joseph.” But neither, I would contend, is correct and, at the very least, not self-evident.

    a)     First, between chapters 37 to 44 covering the Joseph narrative, it is interrupted by chapter 38, the story of Tamar and how and why she tricked her father-in-law into sleeping with her and getting her pregnant. Such an important interposition in the story should and cannot be overlooked so, at the very least, its placement raises many questions.

    b)     There is certainly no doubt that Joseph is the main protagonist in the story. But the hero?

    c)     I now must introduce an aside. It is important to distinguish between the major protagonist and a hero, for in Shakespearian tragedy or in Attic tragedy, leading figure may be far from heroic. And when he is, say in Othello, his heroic qualities may just be a foil for the jealousy, for the naiveté that get him into trouble. Hamlet is no hero. Oedipus is no hero. Let us assume for the moment that Jacobson means “main protagonist” when he writes “hero”.

    d)     Jacobson’s distinction between emotion and calculation may be similar to Aristotle’s differentiation between the two in insisting that tragedy is about the passions, and about compassion, and in the dialectic of the two, the audience is subjected to a catharsis, releasing fears and thereby cleaning the spectator of deformed emotions. Or, far less likely given the influence of Aristotle via Maimonides to Jewish commentary, he could have been referring to Nietzsche’s theory that tragedy is a dialectic, not between passion and compassion as two sides of emotion, but between emotion and what is referred to as calculation by Jacobson. I was not able to discern Jacobson’s position because his statements lacked precision.

    11.   Rabbi Jacobson then asks a central question: will the real Joseph please stand up? He immediately states his main thesis: “Joseph’s life embodies the entire drama and paradox of human existence. Joseph on the outside was not the Joseph on the inside; his outer behavior never did justice to his authentic inner grace.” The rabbi then introduces another radical separation, not only passion offsetting calculation, but the outer life in contrast to the inner. Further, the rabbi insists that Joseph’s outer behaviour “never did justice to his authentic inner grace.” We now know for sure that when Jacobson wrote “hero” and not main protagonist, he meant hero, he meant in the sense of Attic tragedy that heroism was in the end a matter of great inner virtue. And here I thought that Covenantal ethics stands in stark contrast to the virtue ethics of the Greeks! And to top it off, Jacobson uses such a Christian virtue as “grace” to apply to Joseph.

    12.  Simone Weil, an illustrious apostate Jew, in her opening lines in her volume, Gravity and Grace, defined grace as the only virtue set outside the laws of nature. “All the natural movements of the soul are controlled by laws analogous to those of physical gravity. Grace is the only exception.” Grace is light. Grace is about supernatural intervention. Lear, on the other hand, is a tragedy of gravity – when we need others most, others withdraw rather than come close. This is Weil’s sense of gravity.

    13.  Grace, on the other hand, is about depth of character and it is impossible in Weil’s eyes for an emotion to be deep but base. The same action is easier if the motive is base. What usually explains a character’s actions – gravity, the natural laws of emotions, or grace, the rarer and only non-natural explanation for action. Grace is a matter of self-surrender not self-aggrandizement, of surrendering oneself to the will of God, or, in Christian terms, to Christ. Deliverance belongs to God not to man. Grace feeds on light not on gravity. For Weil, there is only one fault, the inability to feed on light, closing oneself off from divine revelation, from the imitation of Jesus “to do the will of Him who sent me.” Gravity makes things come down. Grace allows them to rise on the wings of the angels. But to be open to grace is to be open to the light of the divine that comes from above, then the narrative cannot be about a man’s capacity from divination, for seeing into the future through interpreting the hiss of snakes or the reading of Tarot cards.

    14.  Joseph’s lifelong claim to having the arts of a diviner suggest at the very least that he was not open to grace, that his divining skills were but attributes of the divine planted in him so that he could foresee the future. One suspects that Joseph is the same arrogant kid he was at seventeen, was the same kid who spread malicious gossip about his brothers to his father, and was the same kid who would grow up to be the Pharaoh’s viceroy and use the occasion of the famine and the ability to distribute food from the Pharaoh’s coffers to deprive the Egyptians of their land and turn them into serfs. How does such an action demonstrate “a soul on fire with moral passion”? Hero! Are you kidding? Possessing the virtue of Grace! Joseph with all his natural brilliance, with all his phenomenal administrative skills, with all his cleverness in manipulating others, is hardly a person exemplifying grace.

    15.  “Joseph’s singular condition – embodying the paradox of the human condition -- is poignantly expressed in one biblical verse: ‘Joseph recognized his brothers but they did not recognize him.’ Joseph easily identified the holiness within his brothers. After all, they lived most of their lives isolated as spiritual shepherds involved in prayer, meditation and study. Yet these very brothers lacked the ability to discern the moral richness etched in the depth of Joseph's heart. Even when Joseph was living with them in Israel, they saw him as an outsider, as a danger to the integrity of the family of Israel. Certainly, when they encountered him in the form of an Egyptian leader, they failed to observe beyond the mask of a savvy politician the heart of a Tzaddik, the soul of a Rebbe.” If Joseph is an exemplar of the soul of a Rebbe, then no one should desire to be a Rebbe.

    16.  To read the pshat that Joseph recognized his brothers but they did not recognize him as having a deeper meaning that the brothers could not see into the soul of Joseph is beyond credibility. When the brothers lived with Joseph in Israel, Rabbi Jacobson is correct – they saw Joseph as endangering them and the integrity of the family. Surely they were correct, not in their action but in their implied thoughts. Joseph used the fact that he was handsome, used the fact that he was an aesthete, and parlayed in malicious gossip. Everything he did was to set father against son and brother against brother. He was a danger to the integrity of the family. And, in the end, because of his economic foresight and his administrative skills, and with some luck thrown in, he reached an unexpected prominence, but instead of using it to reinforce his family in Israel, he drew them all out to the land of Goshen, thereby eventually subjecting the Hebrews to the wrath of the Egyptians fed up with a Hebrew interloper who had reduced them to serfs. Because of Joseph, some years of great heights, but many more bitter years of slavery and alienation from the promised land. A hero with a soul of grace!!! Come on.

    17.  Rabbi Jacobson offers as an illustration Joseph’s actions in rejecting the advances of Potiphar’s wife. But look at Joseph’s explanation for his rejection. It would not be in my self-interest for the foundation of my position is trust. If he slept with Potiphar’s wife, he would betray that trust and put everything at risk. The decision is a matter of consequential calculation, not moral conviction. It is one thing to read into the text. It is another to read into the text and ignore what is said before one’s eyes.

    18.  If the Kaballah sees Joseph as the exemplar of the blaze hidden within the dark hole, then it is a neo-Platonist tract written by those who seek the perfect hidden form within and in spite of the detritus of daily life, when, in grace, the light is visited upon one and is not a given in one’s DNA. That is, if you believe in grace.

    19.  I am afraid that Rabbi Jacobson neither understands Joseph nor comprehends what grace is.

    20.  Finally, I confess that I have as hard a time with heroic misty-eyed biblical interpretation as I do with heroic history. Both are assaults on intelligence that constructs an ideal edifice built on sand and ignoring evidence before one’s very eyes. As just another example from the few cited above, Rabbi Jacobson makes a repeated point that Joseph asked his brothers to approach him, But the parshat begins with Judah approaching Joseph without any urging from the latter. That raises the possibility that even in Rabbi Jacobson’s interpretation, and perhaps more so, Judah is approaching the other rather than ordering the others to approach him, and this is a far greater exemplar of grace and insight than Joseph’s behaviour. Further, he might already have suspected that the vizier was Joseph.

     

    Ignoring the citations which remind me of the praises Eastern European scholars gave to Marx when their governments were under the thumb of Russia within the USSR but papers that had little or no connection with Marxist theory, what is one to make of the concluding sentence: “The eternal lesson of Joseph is that the individual journey of your life, in all of its ups and downs, is what will ultimately allow you to discover your unique place in this world as a servant of G-d.”?

     

    Howard

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  • Anonymous -6 years ago

    Awesome!

    Thank you so much for sharing this moving, very readable insight in Josephs story. Having gone through many personal struggles myself, with more to come ahead of me in the near future, I will look upon Joseph's story as a chance to further develop my character. Futhermore, to strengthen my faith in the days to come and to become closer to my soul and God, which I have only just discovered. Instead of looking to the near future with adversity and dread, I will use use it to light up my soul and those of others around me too :)

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  • Anonymous -6 years ago

    The Lesson of Joseph's life

    Thank you.  I will try to remember this lesson as I go through my life and realize it is a lesson for everyone as they go through their lives...that EVERYTHING we are all going through, the ups and the downs, the joys and the sadness, the seemingly good and the bad, EVERYTHING happens for our good. We should all know this deep in our hearts and in our minds. Makes life easier somehow.  thank you!!!

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    Sara -6 years ago

    The Lesson of Joseph's life

    Thank you for this lesson. I will try to remember it through all the ups and downs of my own life (and actually of the lives of others) and know that EVERYTHING we are all going through is for a good reason.  If only we could all truly know this in our hearts and minds. Would make life easier. I guess that is the challenge. Thank you!!!!

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  • Anonymous -6 years ago

    wow

    yeshar koach for this amazing life lesson

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Essay Vayigash

Rabbi YY Jacobson
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Dedicated by Josh Goldhirsch, In loving memory of Shraga Feivish ben Meir Goldhirsch

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I Am Joseph - The Light Born of Life's Challenges

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