The Dangers of Passivity

Three Levels of Moral Degeneration: Passivity, Destruction, Isolation

by: Rabbi YY Jacobson

Willpower

A woman is leaving her multimillion dollar mansion in Beverly Hills when a poor man approaches her and cries, "Oh ma'am, I haven't eaten in three days."

To which the woman responds: "I am so envious of you; I wish had your will power."
 
Three Prophets

An intriguing Midrash states (1) that three of the great Jewish personalities communicated their prophesies using an identical Hebrew term, eicha, which means "how" or "alas."
The first one to utter this word was Moses.

In the beginning of this week's portion, Devarim, Moses, speaking during the last weeks of his life, recalls how many years earlier he shared with his people his profound sense of frustration as the leader of Israel. "I said to you at that time, 'I cannot carry you alone...How (eicha) can I carry your contentiousness, your burdens and your quarrels if I am all by myself (2)?"

The second was Isaiah.

In the opening chapter of Isaiah, this extraordinary man of G-d laments the moral degeneration of Jerusalem and its Jewish inhabitants 700 years after Moses' death (3). "How—eicha—has the faithful city become a prostitute?" Isaiah cries. "She was full of justice, righteousness lodged in her, but now murderers (4)."

The third was Jeremiah. 

Jeremiah's heart-wrenching book of Lamentations, written 200 years after Isaiah (5) and depicting the bloody destruction of Jerusalem, opens with the word "Eicha," alas. "Alas—she sits in solitude! The city that was great with people has become like a widow."
Three Linked Messages

Now, it is logical to assume that the Midrash is not making a random observation of three people using the same term. Rather, the Midrash is attempting to tell us that there exists a subtle link between the three messages of Moses, Isaiah and Jeremiah. It is this connection that compelled the three giants to choose the dramatic term "eicha" for their conversations with the people of Israel (6).

On the surface, no link is visible. Moses was discussing the enormous burden of leadership; Isaiah, the ugliness of promiscuity; and Jeremiah the tragedy of loss. Yet, the Midrash is hinting to us that these three messages are not only intertwined but actually evolve one from another (7).
The Tragedy of Silence

What was Moses' complaint? This extraordinary human being, "Whom G-d had known face to face (8)," was not lamenting his stressful schedule or the lack of time for leisure. What perturbed Moses was that he was the only one taking ultimate responsibility for the fate of the nation. Others were willing to assist during their free time, but it was only Moses who felt that the needs and struggles of the people of Israel were his own.

"How (eicha) can I carry your contentiousness, your burdens and your quarrels if I am all by myself?" Moses cries. If only one person is ready to put himself on the line in the fight for a better world, while others just emit a sigh and go on with their personal affairs, we are bound to crumble.

The triumph of evil does not occur as a result of the perpetrators of evil per se; it happens because of the many ordinary men and women who don't care enough to stand up for what is right. When ordinary people of good moral standing lose the courage or willingness to protest injustice, morality is dead.

This is what Moses protested: the notion that ordinary men and women need not share equal responsibility in mending the world, combating immorality and transforming human society into an abode for G-d (8*). 

The cry of Moses' "How can I carry you alone" ultimately evolved into the second stage of degeneration, which reached its peak during the time of Isaiah. "How has the faithful city become a prostitute?" Isaiah asked. "She was full of justice, righteousness lodged in her, but now murderers."

How indeed? Because Moses was left alone on the front lines of the battlefield for goodness and morality. When multitudes of people of moral stature do not feel an urgent responsibility to combat the flames of hate and evil burning in their society, a city once full of justice becomes, instead, a haven for murderers; a city of light turns into darkness.

Isaiah's call of "How has the faithful city become a prostitute," evolved into the third stage of degeneration, when Jerusalem destroyed itself, reaching the abyss during the days of Jeremiah. "Alas—she sits in solitude! The city that was great with people has become like a widow," he lamented (9).

The three "eicha's" represent three levels of moral degeneration: Passivity, destruction and isolation.
Contemporary Jewish Silence
 
This painful truth was demonstrated once again in most recent times, during the destruction of our brothers and sisters in Jerusalem and in the entire land of Israel, following the signing of the Oslo accords in 1996 and the Gaza withdrawal in 2005.

The tragedy of Oslo was twofold. Israel withdrew from most of its own territories, facilitating the creation of a massive terrorist infrastructure right at its back door. And, Israel extended incredible tolerance toward the terrorists, allowing them to continue their despicable work.
Following the Gaza withdrawal, leaving it vacant of every Jew, Gaza was transformed to Hamastan, committed to the destruction of Israel. Poor Gilad Shalit, kidnapped near the Gaza border in 2006, still finds himself in captivity by Hamas in Gaza.

Yet this was not solely the result of erroneous decisions by some self-deceived individuals on the top of the government—the late Yitzchak Rabin, Shimon Peres, Yossi Sarid, Ahud Almert and Ariel Sharon. Such a perverse perspective on good and evil could have been fermented only because so many decent and nice people in Israel and abroad succumbed to the temptation of remaining silent and politically correct.

The same is true concerning every crisis—physical or spiritual—that faces our people today, from mass assimilation, to inner conflict and disharmony, to domestic abuse, teen-age despair, and the dangers of Anti-Semitism the world over. If we rely on "Moses" to do all the caring for us, our future is endangered. Every individual ought to lose a little bit of sleep because of his or her personal concern on how to bring redemption to a hurting world.
 
"Why Did You Not Faint"?
 
A moving tale (10):

Rabbi Yisroel Meir Kagen, the saintly Chafatz Chaim (1838-1933), once dispatched a delegation of Jewish representatives to the Polish prime minister in an attempt to nullify a new decree against Jewish ritual slaughtering (shechitah).

Upon their return, they reported to the great rabbi that their mission was a failure. "The minister did not understand our Yiddish, and the translator did not do a good job  conveying our message," the delegation reported.

"Yes, yes," cried the Chafatz Chaim. "But why did none of you faint? Had one of you been genuinely affected by the decree against Judaism as to faint, the prime minister would have understood you very well," he concluded.
 
 
1) Midrash Rabah Eicah 1:1.
2) Deuteronomy 1:9; 1:12.
3) Moses spoke his words in the year 2488 since Creation. Isaiah began to prophesies in the year 3142 since Creation.
4) Isaiah 1:21. -- These words of Isaiah are also read on this Shabbos, in the Haftorah.
5) According to most opinions, Jeremiah wrote Lamentations in the year 3320, while imprisoned by the Jewish king Yehoyakim. He then distributed it through his disciple, Baruch ben Neriyah. When the king Yehoyakim read it, he tore it up and burned it, demonstrating his lack of faith in Jeremiah's despairing prophesies.
6) This is further underscored by the custom in some Jewish communities to read on this Shabbos the verse of Moses' stating "eicha," in the same sad melody in which we read Jeremiah's book of Eicha (Lamentations) on the 9th of Av, when we commemorate the fall of Jerusalem and the destruction of the
Temple on that day.
7) The Midrash itself comments that Moses observed the condition of the Jewish people during a time of serenity and comfort, when they could afford to complain and quarrel. Isaiah saw the people during a time of frivolity and promiscuity. Jeremiah witnessed the Jewish people during their time of tragedy and loss. It seems quite clear that the Midrash is denoting an evolutionary process of degeneration.
8) Deuteronomy 34:10.
8*) Aicha is comprised of the same letters as the word Ayekah.  The Aicha  becomes a call for Ayekah!
9) This interpretation in the Midrash is based on a lecture presented by Rabbi Adin Even-Yisroel (Steinzaltz) in Jerusalem, during the summer of 1999.
10) This story was told by the Lubavitcher Rebbe at a public gathering in the winter of 1975.
My gratitude to Shmuel Levin, a writer and editor in Pittsburgh, for his editorial assistance.

Comments

Thank you

So well done. It really hits home.

Posted at 7/12/2010 6:24 PM by Rochel Chana RIven

fainting

Why did the Chofetz Chaim not go to Poland himself ? It did not sound like a mission for the faint of heart.
Historically, 1933 was the beginnings of a horror to come that would put Kashrut far behind the backburner. Too many personages are only wise in hindsight. This si not to belittle the highest standards of tzaddiks. It is intended to put another perspective on the matter. As the Amidah asks : Let all tzaddikim be returned to us in the World to Come.
Thank you.

Posted at 7/12/2010 6:45 PM by mordi

OSLO AGREEMENT

my dear r' y.y.
i think that we were the first jews who could see the down fall for the jews by accepting the Oslo agriment..my disputes whith Tzwi Kolitz z.l. and shlomo Shamir and others attests to it.I Am looking of the articels which i wrote at thtat time..and i was praying that i should be wrong..buT..we must hope.M.G. G.

Posted at 7/12/2010 7:02 PM by Moshe Gruda

Comment

Have just unsubscribed from your list - I really took offense at your characterizing those who believe that Israel's best interest is a 2-state solution with a Palestinian state, i.e., in my view the Oslo process and negotiations for peace with the Palestinian Arabs are not evil, negligant or indifferent, rather are a sincere attempt to secure Israel's safety and survival. I also took offence at your defending and minimizing Shalom Rubashkin's real and serious crimes. If you represent the 'religious' point of view to other Jews, you have succeeded in alientating me. I hope this feedback will be useful to you, as I believe your intentions are honorable - but I think you are seriously misunderstanding a significant part of your audience's world views to the point of sounding like you yourself do not have a sound grasp on what is ethical. That is a pity, because I have enjoyed some of your essays, but I think you need to hear my reaction as probably others on your list share it.
Thank you.

Posted at 7/12/2010 9:39 PM by Vivian Deutsch

Baal shem tov

Not related to this article I wanted to ask what is the purpose of chasidus if we are still so divided as if each group is a religion of it own when you go to the catskills and you see all the different camps and groups havings their own bangalows and camps there is such a divide how are we supposed to connect and feel that we are one people with all the other communities how do we bring back the baal shem ideas and unify all the jewish people

Posted at 7/13/2010 12:31 PM by Rachel

Dear Rabbi Jacobson,

I loved your essay. And it left me with a couple of questions (as it should):

1) Ok, I understand the issue of creating a terrorist state. However, what is Israel, as a democracy, supposed to do with her large Arab population? You can't just wish the issue away.

2) Usually, the "ordinary person" is a someone very busy struggling just to make ends meet. S/he's not a full time professional employed in fielding the world's problems nor does s/he have special training in this area. The leader on the other hand, is often someone who has all day for the job. He's usually a professional. He's usually salaried to do just that. So what are you expecting of the ordinary person to do differently?

Sincerely,
Elchonon

Posted at 7/13/2010 1:57 PM by Elchonon

it is the truth

Everything you say in this e mail is so true that it is difficult to understand why it is not more acknowledged. Unfortunately nothing that is written by anyone seems to make an impression and we just go from one disaster to an even bigger one until eventually I fear we will once again be 'wandering'Jews' Chas ve Chalila.
Edith Ognall
Netanya

Posted at 7/13/2010 3:30 PM by Edith

how?

I always love your ability to draw down what we inherently know but don't often act upon. This story on eicha was a great example...what is difficult is to figure out which battle to take on and maybe most importantly Where and When. I "faint" inside throughout the day when I see what's happening to the US and even more so when I feel the pressure on Israel and EVERY DAY when I daven spend extra time on the Amidah section ....crush our enemies... We are all busy and I don't mean that as excuse BUT if you've got any suggestions of how to focus in so we're not just spinning wheels I'd love your insight. Hope all is well and hope to from New Mexico, All the Best. Jeff Sollins

Posted at 7/13/2010 3:59 PM by jeff

To Vivian Deutsch

How sad that you deprive yourself of the joy Rabbi Jacobson's classes and essays create. People have differences of opinion, but then there's truth and truth is painful. It is not easy to open one's mind and be willing to be possibly change one's stance.
Rabbi Jacobson does not seek nor need my approbation, but here the fault is not in the mouth and pen of the instructor. So sad, but, indeed I understand that you prefer to go back and listen and read words of those who allow you to stay in your old mindset.

Posted at 7/13/2010 8:14 PM by Elki

How?

I agree and I faint at night with worry. But I, too, say, HOW am I to protest. I am sick myself and after just taking care of myself I have almost no energy, My one grandchild has been brought up by an assimilated mother. My influence seems minimal. I continue to pray for the peace of Jerusalem and our holy Jewish people. Oslo is a done deal. I think we may need to make

Posted at 7/13/2010 9:30 PM by Zelda Lowenstein

Danger of Passivity

This was a very moving essay! I was so touched by it that I have shared it on my Facebook page. Thank you for taking the time to write this article.

Posted at 7/14/2010 12:52 AM by Rivka

WHY SECULAR NAMES?

I like your very insightful articles but I'm very disappointed that you only use the the English names of all our great personalities
and when you quote the Pesukim they're also in English. It sounds like the New Testament, Lehavdil, and doesn't have the Taam of the Loshon Hakodesh. I understand that a big part of your audience is made up of Baalei Teshuva, but you're helping them stay Ignoramuses.
Surely everybody can recognize Moshe Rabeinu and no need to use Moses etc.
Batya

Posted at 7/19/2010 8:20 AM by BATYA
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